how to find a bf that’s also a good dom?

Now don’t get me wrong, I love a random hookup. But my ultimate kink is being an absolute depraved slut but for one person. Exhibitionism, bondage, power dynamics, I love all that shit. But I also want a boyfriend lol. Not to mention, I get my most creatively depraved when I have one object of affection to be slutty for.

Lately it seems like the best doms are the worst bfs and vice versa. I want someone that can push me to the edge sexually and also be a reliable partner. What are some green flags to look for in a potential partner that indicates sexual comparability AND emotional maturity? What are some
places Im likely to meet someone with the same kinks and a desire for monogamy?

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